Visualize

Continuing with the 7 habits of extremely successful people, the second habit states that you should begin each day, each project, each adventure, each new phase of your life with the End in Mind! What this means is that we should each set long term goals for our lives. VISUALIZE! Form a mental picture of where you want to be next. If you have an ideal body weight and shape, visualize yourself that way and fixate on it. You will find that you will curb your eating habits and exercise habits to match your visual image of yourself. If you want wealth, then visualize yourself wealthy and you will find yourself adopting those habits that puts you in wealth and not in debt. If you want a successful business visualize what that means down to the stationary paper you will buy.

After my first marriage, I didn’t know if I wanted to be in a relationship again. After about a year, I decided that I wanted to be married again. I began to pray and visualize specifically the type of man I wanted. I stated his height, his ethnicity, his temperament, his ability to love my children, and the most important fact was that he had to share my spiritual beliefs and be MY PRINCE. I also visualized the date at which I wanted to be engaged and then married. I repeated this mantra each day and never lost site of the END GAME! Exactly in the time frame I specified I got my Prince down to EVERY detail! That makes you want to holler and cry out for help! VISUALIZATION and long term planning works! Try it! How can it hurt. You see most people don’t try this technique because they fear disappointment. The fear of disappointment is the single reason that blessings are blocked in your life.

Stop being disappointed and begin to believe in your true North Compass! Visualize your future and get out the rut of disappointment and lost!